Sessions can be tailored to address erectile challenges, genital de-sensitization and other porn-related issues.
When porn consumption affects your arousal and sexual health, you may wish to make some changes.
Learning new sexual tools and skills is an empowering way to re-wire pleasure in the body and enjoy pleasure free from reliance of vices and/or compulsive behaviors.
Porn consumption can easily develop into patterns and habits that may be unfulfilling and lead to lack of physical sensation and emotional and mental frustration.
There is a reason why it’s easily accessible and free. It’s designed to keep you hooked, controlled and languid.
Giving away your powerful life force of sexual energy , habitually sitting in front of a screen jerking off with fast, furious, friction is soul sucking.
It weakens you.
I’m not shaming porn or anyone who chooses to watch it. What I’d like to bring to attention is your relationship to it.
Are you conscious of your intake and possible dependency on it to become turned on? Has your pleasure become lacklustre and habitual because of over consumption? I invite you to consider how you relate to porn and how it’s affecting your sexual health, wellness and vitality. If it is having a detrimental affect on you consider taking back your power and making changes.
The world needs strong ( body/mind & spirit ), heart centered, empowered men in these times. Excessive porn isn’t conducive to that. It’s a form of mind control and it’s free because YOU are the product.
Please inquire if you have questions or would like to incorporate addressing this into a session.
It’s important to understand the role of the brain and why watching excessive amounts of porn may lead to erectile challenges.
Neurotransmitters send chemical messages between these neurons. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter and this helps the flow of information to the front of the brain which is linked to emotion and thought . . . AND to the reward systems (wanting, pleasure, desire, motivation).
Our brain cells are activated by what we see or hear. For example, when someone receives a hug, the brain releases dopamine and that makes them feel good. Dopamine regulates pathways of pleasure in the brain to the body and plays a crucial role in sexual arousal and erections.
When a person watches porn, their brain is flooded with dopamine.
Too much dopamine can cause problems. The brain can get overloaded and overwhelmed, automatically diminishing some of the dopamine receptors. Long story short: the brain continues to release dopamine, which eventually means there are fewer receptors. Watching porn then no longer arouses the person as much or as quickly, which leads to a need for more porn that is more intense in order to obtain the original sensation.
Sexual activities that usually give folks a burst of dopamine and make them happy are no longer enough. Often, regular sex becomes unfulfilling and arousal with a partner can be challenging.
Porn is designed to capture attention. The ‘performers’ do things that don’t translate into real life . . . at all. People can become conditioned to this type of arousal and doesn’t carry into real life situations, resulting in declining dopamine levels and arousal difficulties.
If this is something you’d like to address, I’m happy to discuss further with you and incorporate learning opportunities into a session.
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